- I was a productivity machine! I was immediately more productive with my work, my personal life and even small tasks. I was waking up to workout (I always workout first thing in the morning) and then right into literally, "Eating the Frog" and tackling my biggest priorities for the day in the morning. My mindset was much more focused on achieving the goals and I had more mental clarity to do so. There was no "I was about to do that but got sucked into the Facebook rabbit hole while checking into a MasterMind group alert."
- I became smarter. No, really, I did. Instead of scrolling, scrolling and scrolling while waiting in lines during errands or even before bed, I picked up books such as Face "by Rachel Hollis or a deeper read, "AI Superpowers, China, Silicon Valley and the New World Order" by Kai Fu Lee. I promise that these books challenged and nourished my brain more than just scrolling through food, workout and lifestyle posts for what my friends and some "so called friends" were doing. Or let's be honest here, what most of these people want the world to think they are doing. If I wasn't reading a book, I picked up on my husband's healthy habit to scroll the WSJ and NYT apps, which I do read, but certainly not enough of. So yes, valuable enriching brain food filled parts of the void of instagram feeds and selfies.
- I was calm. Anyone who knows me would never use that word to describe me. (I drink decaffeinated coffee for a reason.) I became more aware of my breathing, my surroundings and within my mind, I felt an incredible sense of focus. While it sounds cliché, the "noise" that distracts us (and doesn't offer us too much value) had been turned down. I was breathing deeper and while I'm not a breathing expert, I do recognize that my day to day central nervous system revs high and my breathing is typically shallow, fast and shallow, which can easily lead to anxiety. I'm guilty of that and many of us refer to it as "the good stress;" however, cutting down on the mental noise rewarded me with a sense of calm and focus that further enabled productivity.
- I was the happiest I've been all year. I am a fairly positive person and feel blessed to live a life where I enjoy my family, my work and my environment. But this sense of happy was a result of being more present at EVERYTHING I was doing. I was not scrolling the socials during outdoor walks (I opted for podcasts or even just enjoying nature), I was not pretending to listen to kids read while posting a photo of them reading, and I was not scrolling news Twitter feeds during phone calls. I was present. I was making the most out of each experiencing, truly embracing "carpe diem" and therefore, happy.
- I found greater success in work, with family and with friends. There are many sayings about creating white space and letting go of things to make room for new opportunities. Within my mental clarity and happiness, I identified where I needed to make room and unclutter to become less "busy" and ultimately more efficient and successful across the board. It was a result of focusing on what truly is important to me and that is different for everyone.
- The FOMO went away. The "Fear of Missing Out" that is linked to social media addiction went away. The need to check in and post just wasn't there and I even received messages from friends asking if I was ok because they had not seen me post on social media. Eye opening or what?
WRITTEN BY
Elisette CarlsonPrior to founding SMACK! Media in 2009, Elisette Carlson was the Director of Marketing at Zoot Sports, a global leader in multi-sports products. Elisette’s passion for sports marketing started at a young age while assisting her father with World Cup soccer events and athletes. A graduate of Princeton University, Elisette was named NCAA First Team All- American and All-Ivy League in Women’s Rowing. As a National Champion coxswain for 2 countries, her competitive drive and determination molded her into a leader and motivator.