I’m often asked
about how I got to where I am and how I’m going to get to where I’m going. My
answer has always been the same – I’ve never had a dream job, and it’s a
blessing and a curse. I’ve never been disappointed in any job that I’ve had,
but I also don’t have this big end goal in mind. However, NOT having a dream
job is what’s gotten me to where I am, and what will continue to shape who I’m meant
to be.
The idea of
having a dream job is deeply ingrained in our culture. We are often encouraged
to identify our passions early on and to pursue careers that align with those
passions. However, the reality is that not everyone has a clear vision of what
their dream job looks like. And that's okay. In fact, not having a dream job
can be a good thing. Here's why.
It allows for exploration and experimentation
When you don't
have a clear idea of what your dream job is, you have the freedom to explore
and experiment with different career paths. You can try out different jobs,
industries, and roles, and see what resonates with you. This can lead to new
and unexpected opportunities that you may not have considered otherwise.
It reduces pressure and expectations
The idea of
having a dream job can create a lot of pressure and expectations. You may feel
like you have to find the perfect career or that you're not living up to your
potential if you don't have a clear vision of your dream job. However, when you
let go of the idea of a dream job, you can focus on doing work that you enjoy
and find fulfilling, rather than trying to fit into a specific mold.
It allows for growth and development
When you don't
have a dream job, you can focus on developing your skills and expertise in a
particular field or industry. This can lead to growth and advancement
opportunities that you may not have considered otherwise. Additionally, you may
find that you enjoy a particular type of work or industry that you hadn't
previously considered, leading to new and exciting opportunities.
It encourages a flexible mindset
Not having a
dream job can encourage a flexible mindset, which is essential in today's
fast-paced and ever-changing job market. By being open to new opportunities and
experiences, you can adapt and thrive in a variety of different roles and
industries. This flexibility can lead to new and exciting opportunities that
you may not have considered otherwise.
I encourage you
to put your dream job aside and imagine “what if.” What if I took on this
project which is off my beaten path, but I might learn something new. What if I
took a course that has nothing to do with my path. What if I reach out to
someone totally outside of my field to learn something new. That being said, I
admire and applaud individuals who have charted their course, succeeded and are
in their dream job. Share your secrets!
Instead of
focusing on finding the perfect career, focus on doing work that you enjoy and
find fulfilling, and the rest will fall into place. I’d love to hear about your
journey and how either having, or not having a dream job in mind has shaped
your career!
WRITTEN BY
Christine Cocrane