With endless jobs and responsibilities on our shoulders, mothers are always busy and stressed. From completing household chores to managing our work-related tasks, we are burdened with multiple duties during the day. This often burns us out and causes stress. In extreme cases, it can even affect our physical and mental health to a greater extent. 
If you are a busy mother, consider these simple tips and solutions to relax every once in a while. I know you need it! 

1. Play Some Relaxing Music

The most effective and easiest way to unwind and beat stress is by listening to your favorite music every once in a while. As soon as you begin feeling stressed, pull your headphones out and take a few minutes to an hour to listen to relaxing music. If you have the luxury, invest in a pair of noise-canceling headphones to keep away from the outside world. You can easily find curated lists of relaxing music online. Such songs are tuned to produce beats that calm your senses. Sip on some hot coffee to enhance the relaxing effect.

2. Invest in an Aromatherapy Kit 

An aromatherapy kit is another effective way to relieve stress and put your mind at ease. The power of essential oils mingles with your sense of smell, which helps you relax and feel calmer.  An aromatherapy kit consists of a diffuser and a set of essential oils such as lavender, tea tree, citrus, ylang-ylang, and many others to produce a calming effect. You can choose from several types of aromatherapy kits as they promote different results. For instance, if you have trouble sleeping at night, you can buy a sleep-inducing aromatherapy kit. Put a few drops of your favorite essential oil in the diffuser and feel your senses calming down as the aroma diffuses in the air.  

3. Invest in a Massage Chair 

A massage chair is the best investment you can make to feel relaxed after a busy day. Whether it’s physical or mental stress, a powerful massage chair can come to your aid. Ditch the expensive massage sessions and invest in a massage chair instead. Zero gravity massage chairs are known for relaxing stressed muscles and improving your posture. You can either look for massage chairs in stores or online by comparing reviews. Since it is an expensive investment, it is necessary to look for multiple options to make an informed decision. 

4. Make Yourself a Cup of Herbal Tea

Another way to unwind every once in a while is by making yourself a steaming cup of herbal tea. Pick a type of tea that relieves stress and relaxes you completely, such as chamomile, peppermint, and lavender. Whether you face trouble sleeping or simply want to relax when reading a book, try different types of teas and experience their beneficial properties. 

5. Consider Meditation

You might have heard of the amazing benefits of meditation and its calming effects. Meditating is the quickest and most effective way to control your anger and relax your mind. The key to effective meditation is to eliminate all thoughts from your mind and control your breathing pattern. Sit on the floor with your legs crossed and place your palms on the knees. Close your eyes, clear your mind, and take a deep breath. Hold it for a few seconds and exhale. Repeat a few times until you feel at ease. Practice this when you feel overwhelmed. Make meditation a regular habit and practice it at least once or twice a day. 

6. Visit a Spa 

If you need to treat your aching muscles and feel relaxed at the same time, you can book an appointment at your local spa and experience the best way to unwind and feel calm. Most spas offer multiple services at once, such as de-stressing, beauty therapy, and anti-aging treatment, thereby giving you an entire experience at once. The expert masseurs and therapists at most spas are trained to offer the best massages and stress-relieving therapies, thereby making the money and time spent worthwhile. Take a day off and visit a spa in your area every once in a while to de-stress, relax, and enjoy the fruits of your labor. 

7. Take a Walk in the Park 

The best way to reflect on your own thoughts and contemplate the true meaning of life is by taking a walk in a park or by the lake. Being in nature is not only relaxing but also affects your physical and mental well-being. A short walk can boost your mental health and help you clear your mind. You can either go alone or ask your friends or spouse to accompany you. Taking a walk in the morning is extremely effective as the morning sun boosts your mood. Any form of light intensity exercises such as yoga and pilates work too. 
If nothing works, consider doing something you like or restarting your favorite hobby that you dropped years ago. Do what you love to feel your authentic self again. You can also take a day off to get away from the busy bustle of your everyday life and spend some time alone. Watch your favorite movie or sleep all day. Feeling crazier? Put on some music and dance it out. 

WRITTEN BY

Daria Brown