A Modern Woman’s Guide to Burning ManA Modern Woman’s Guideto Burning ManShares It’s that time of year again: Burning Man.A time when tens of thousands of people from around the world gather in Nevada’s Black Rock Desert to create a temporary, participatory metropolis dedicated to community, art, self-expression, and self-reliance.As a past attendee, I can attest to just how radical and life-changing of an experience Burning Man really is. It’s more than just a city in the desert or an art festival — it’s a culture of possibility among a network of dreamers and doers. So instead of buying that flower headcrown and changing your Facebook status to “desert woke,” you’ll need to mentally and physically prepare yourself for what might be the best, most enlightening, and potentially challenging week of your life. Have questions or need advice? Well, in a world where Google can’t answer everything, Alexa is unavailable without wifi, and SIRI STILL DOESN’T UNDERSTAND WHAT I’M SAYING, this guide shares the real information you need to Burn right.First, let’s cover the basics: THE LINGOYes, you may use these as #’s when you harass the internet upon returning Black Rock City (BRC): The annual, temporary city created by the Burning Man (BM) community Burner: attended the festival at least once; pursues a way of life based on BM principlesBurn Virgin: YouFear of Missing Out (FOMO): A harmless mental disorder caused by the overwhelming scope of things to do and see in BRC; may lead to sleep deprivation.Gremlins: People who turn into little party monsters once the sun goes down, exposed to bright/neon lights, or fed various things. MOOP: Matter Out Of Place; litter, debris.Playa: think “beach in Spanish,” not “promiscuous individual…” (though you’ll find both)Sparklepony: Derogatory term for one who fails to embrace radical self-reliance (overly relies on the resources of friends/community). Often fashionably attired, since they packed nothing but costumes.Theme camps: Tribes with communal space for members; offer interactive opportunities (music, art, events, food, etc.) to festival communityThe 10 Principles: the core of BM: Radical Inclusion, Gifting, Decommodification, Radical Self-Reliance, Radical Self-Expression, Communal Effort, Civic Responsibility, Leaving No Trace, Participation, Immediacy Moving onto those #Burning questions on your mind.FAQ’sWhat not to ask the internetQ: An entire week outside? Will I have to pee in a bush? A: Of course not — there are no bushes in the desert. Not only are there are clean portapotties (at the beginning of the day at least), but it’s also highly unadvised to excrete outdoors (hint: that’s MOOP). Leave no trace of doodoo behind.Q: Am I completely cut off from the outside world?A: No — there’s a BRC postal service to keep in touch with muggle friends.If you arrive before all 70,000 expected attendees, you might have cell service. But only use your phone to CAPTURE photos, even if you’re one of the lucky few with signal. It’s against BM etiquette. Plus, if you POST on social media, your boss will know you’re not completely off the grid. Enjoy answering emails in the desert.Q: Do I have to join a Theme Camp? A: Not if you prefer doing WAY MORE work yourself, especially on vacation.People in camps are assigned different roles and shifts (kitchen, bartending, building, etc) which means you don’t have to spend your entire day surviving/working. You can instead go enjoy the marvelous art and activities other camps are offering. Q: Is there really a sex dome? Naked people? Weird Sh**? Drugs?A: What ye seek, ye shall find… But don’t worry. Ye is safe and ye personal space is valued.Q: No Rules…as in I can do WHATEVER I WANT?A: #ExpressYourself But keep in mind that Burning Man takes place on federal land, and is subject to local, state and federal laws, including those involving illicit narcotics. Officers are on-site.Q: But how do I clean up without running water?A: If you’re Greek, Windex.Other options include solar showers, baby wipes, hand sanitizer, dry shampoo, etc. There’s also a theme camp that offers a “human carwash.”Q: What if I get hurt at the Festival?A: You’ll die. There are FREE emergency medical services with volunteer EMT’s and doctors. I may have tested it out first hand last year … Best X-rays I’ve ever had. Q: Is it true that everyone at Burning Man is on drugs?A: Only on days that end in YNo. In fact, many participants are sober, and there are even support groups (like AA meetings) that take place! Plus, SO MANY camps offer free drinks and enough fun to keep you entertained legally. And now for the fun stuff…HOW TO BE THE BELLE OF THE BURNPrep like your momma made you: though you don’t necessarily have to tell her you’re going The more you plan in advance, the more carefree fun you’ll have. Plan your outfits day-by-day, what you’ll eat (snacks vs camp provided meals), create a checklist of what you’re bringing, and figure out how you’re getting it all there and back (return journey is arguably more difficult). Reminder: don’t be a sparklepony.Tried-and-tested ways to have the best f***ng experience ever. Items to always have on your person: Strap it to your fanny or put it on your backA Quest/protein bar, moisturizer, sunblock, goggles (sunglasses alone won’t help during dust storms), bandana, chapstick, water bottle, hand sanitizer, cup with lid, a notebook/pen, your ID (it’s still 21+ to drink), and a tampon (even if just to gift to someone unprepared).Make a loose agenda: #noFOMOThough your plans will always change (like when you meet those New Zealanders that ask you to witness their wedding 5 minutes from now) identify the must-SEE’s and must-DO’s in advance. Give yourself a guideline of what you want to experience outside of partying.Go Glamping: Girls don’t poop — but if we did, we’d prefer to do it in an RV.If you have the means to do it, do it. Save up and stay in an RV, or make friends with people who have one. Give Superior Hugs: the average BM hug lasts WAY longer than a civilian hug — and it’s MAGICAL. Give hugs out like candy on Halloween.Bike, Babe: Treat bikes like boyfriends — dress them up, take them with you, and lock them down.1- Unique bikes are easier to spot in a sea of THOUSANDS. Wild designs and materials (fur, totems, lights, etc.) will satisfy your inner child.2- Even if you’re going somewhere closeby, you’ll meet people who want to explore…don’t get left behind without a bike handy.3- Burners don’t steal (I’ve seen laptops, passports, wallets, etc. returned) but Gremlins often mistake bikes as their own or think “they’re borrowing it.”Network: Float like a butterfly, but don’t sting like a beeMany influential artists, creators and leaders have called the Playa home (Elon Musk, Heidi Klum, Katy Perry, etc). Set your intention to rub dust-bows with inspirational people, and spend time with strangers. But don’t schmooze, it’s against the code. Friendships may carry into the real world, but don’t lead with that. Volunteer: BM is not a spectator sportThere are so many opportunities to keep BM running by getting involved and meeting badass people. You can sign up for shifts at Center Camp including: postal office, lamplighting (an epic nightly ceremony), Moop, at theme camps camps, etc.Make Fashion Your Passion: BM is like Halloween for adults (even though Halloween is really for adults)Go all out with your costume — headdresses, jewelry, props, wigs, hats, glitter, body paint, statement pieces — and have people appreciate the art you’re wearing. TIP: recycle old clothes, get combat boots, shop at Goodwill, braid your hair for one hair-do, and go faux-fur.Gift, gift, gift: you are what you give… (but seriously, Usher) They say happiness can’t be bought, but it can be shared. Who needs money in a world where everyone gives time, love, and tangible items like food, trinkets, etc.?! The Playa is a desert oasis, contribute accordinglyIN CONCLUSIONYou should drop everything and go Burn.All humor aside, it’s hard to paint a picture of just how impactful and life-changing Burning Man was for me. I went in with the intention of finding myself — and because I was prepared, I did that plus way more.I let my guard down and explored strange ideas with new friends of all ages, and cried an embarrassing amount of times. I questioned my spirituality, mentality and social constructs. I prayed, meditated, and mourned. Witnessed marriages, sunrises, and art. And frankly, I partied pretty damn hard. But for a week, I let go of who I “thought I was,” and instead, allowed my authentic self to be who I am. I hope you’ll experience the magic as well. You’ll understand when you arrive and they welcome you home. Reem EdanReem is a 26 year-old Muslim-American comedian. The biggest performance of her career so far is coming up in London at the Asian Comedy Night event at the Watford Colosseum on April 8, find link below.